Do You Know Your Life’s Purpose?

As we prepare for our upcoming seasonal retreat, we are contemplating the Water element. In Traditional Chinese Medicine, the Kidneys are the yin organs associated with Water and with our Essence, Our True Nature. One of the many ways an imbalance in Water shows up in an individual is with a lack of purpose, a sense of malaise, a lack of motivation. One wonders, especially during winter and early spring, what is my purpose in life?

Thankfully, there are several practices we can draw on to support and build our kidney energy and therefore restore balance to our Water element. One way is to incorporate nourishing herbal infusions as a daily tonic. A favorite Kidney tonic is Nettles (Urtica dioica) also known as Stinging Nettles. Nettles are ubiquitous in gardens and waysides from Maine to Florida and New York to California. Maybe an indicator of how many people benefit from this tonic herb?

Another Kidney tonic, an adaptogen, which enhances the body’s natural response to stress, is Tulsi (Oscimum sanctum) or Holy Basil which is a sacred plant in India and is planted near temples on the Indian subcontinent. Tulsi is a powerful antioxidant, anti-bacterial, anti-fungal and anti-inflammatory herb. And the smell of the plant and it’s essential oils is divine. Try making a delicious herbal infusion with Holy Basil.

Whole Foods, like whole herbs, are recommended to help balance the Kidneys. Specifically, black-colored foods and foods with the salty taste are beneficial to the Kidneys. These foods include seaweeds and other sea foods that have been marinated in the bounty of natural sea salts for millennia. Legumes, like Kidney beans, and other black foods, such as black sesame seeds, black beans and black walnuts are tonifying to the Kidneys.

Restorative Practices, like Yoga, Meditation, Tai Chi, and Deep Rest, especially during the hours of 3-7am and 3-7pm are recommended to restore our Kidney energy. Learn to practice restorative yoga, specifically tailored for this time of year and more practices to balance your energy during winter and early spring by attending our upcoming retreat.

In the meantime, try incorporating some of these practices now. And ask yourself, “What is your life’s purpose?” Can you articulate it? Or write it down? Continue to practice these three recommendations for the next week. Ask yourself again “What is Your life’s purpose?” Try again in one month. One Year. “What is your life’s purpose?” Has your answer has changed? Has your answer become more clear? “What IS Your Life’s Purpose?”

Out With the Old and In With the New

How are those New Year’s Resolutions going? The New Year is usually the time most of us decide to make changes to our diet, lifestyle, and goals for the rest of the year. Unfortunately, the winter season does not necessarily afford us the luxury of following through on our new habits and plans. Wintertime encourages us to turn inward, retreat, and receive. Winter is a time to slow down and contract in the freezing cold temperatures. For many of us, it is heavy, slow and potentially stagnant and not the time to start something new, especially without seeing immediate results.

A better use of our time, may be in making use of the adage, “Out with the old and in with the new!” January and February are great months to utilize the cold dark days and nights to go through some of those piles of items that are taking up space and weighing you down. Late Winter and early spring is the Kapha (Water and Earth) time of year, according to the Traditional Healing Philosophy of India, Ayurveda, the sister science to Yoga.

This is the time of year when we need to be attentive to things in our nature that are heavy, things we may cling or attach ourselves to. According to my teacher, Maya Tiwari, “Clear unobstructed space is essential to Kapha’s wellbeing. Their greatest sadhana (practice) is to detach from unnecessary hoarding… and to determine what is absolutely necessary.”

As a Virgo, I love clutter clearing, and I have been particularly inspired by Marie Kondo’s book, The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up. This book lays out a specific methodology for how to go through your things so that you will not obstruct your precious space ever again. And because Kapha wants to see immediate results and improvements, try Marie Kondo’s method which suggests going through your clothes first. But if even this seems too daunting, use your own method and start small. For example, if you would like to clean out your kitchen, start with one drawer. You will usually feel so great by the time you finish one drawer that you will keep going. Movement is a fantastic antidote to the heavy, contracted winter months and movement with an end goal is even better.

For more information on how the change in seasons effects us and some recommendations for how to respond, as well as a luxurious restorative yoga class to support you during this time of year, consider attending our next seasonal retreat: Yoga to Lift the Spirits, A Seasonal Restorative Yoga Retreat on Sunday, February 25th, 1pm – 4pm.